Support for Children, Youth & Young Adults

Child & Youth Counselling in Coquitlam & Victoria, BC

Support for young people navigating anxiety, school stress, big emotions, relationships, and life's challenges.

Trueself Counselling offers a supportive space for children, youth, teens, and young adults to understand their emotions, build confidence, and develop healthy coping skills.

In-person counselling in Coquitlam & Victoria Online counselling across British Columbia

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Understanding the Signs

Signs Your Child or Teen May Be Struggling

Growing up can feel overwhelming. Sometimes changes in emotions or behaviour are the first signs that a child or teenager may need additional support.

Behaviour Can Sometimes Say What Words Can't Yet Explain

A child or teen may become quieter, more worried, more irritable, or less interested in things they once enjoyed. These changes don't always mean something is seriously wrong, but they're worth noticing.

  • Increased worry or anxiety
  • Withdrawing from friends or family
  • Irritability or emotional outbursts
  • Negative self-talk or low confidence
  • Changes in mood or behaviour

They Don't Need to Know Exactly What's Wrong

Counselling can offer children and teens a supportive space to feel heard, understand their emotions, and develop coping skills at a pace that feels comfortable for them.

Support at Different Stages

Who We Support

Counselling is tailored to each young person's age, individual needs, and stage of development.

01 Childhood

Children

Child Counselling

Children may express stress through big emotions, worry, frustration, or changes in behaviour. Child counselling offers age-appropriate support to help them understand feelings, develop coping skills, and build confidence.

Support May Include
Big Emotions Anxiety Confidence Family Changes
02 Adolescence

Teens

Teen Counselling

Teen counselling offers a supportive space to navigate school stress, anxiety, changing friendships, identity, and relationships while developing emotional awareness, coping skills, and confidence.

Support May Include
School Stress Anxiety Identity Relationships
03 Early Adulthood

Young Adults

Young Adult Counselling

Young adult counselling provides support for navigating independence, education, work, relationships, anxiety, and the uncertainty of major life transitions while building confidence and self-understanding.

Support May Include
Anxiety Boundaries Relationships Life Transitions
Every Young Person Is Different

Counselling is tailored to their age, individual needs, and comfort level, creating space for them to feel understood and supported.

Areas of Support

What Can Child & Teen Counselling Help With?

Every young person's experience is different. Counselling can offer support for a range of emotional, social, and developmental challenges.

Anxiety & Worry

Managing anxious thoughts, fears, avoidance, and ongoing worry.

School Stress & Academic Pressure

Navigating academic pressure, perfectionism, and school-related anxiety.

Emotional Overwhelm

Understanding big emotions and developing healthier coping strategies.

Self-Esteem & Confidence

Building self-worth and reducing harsh self-criticism.

Friendships & Social Challenges

Navigating friendships, bullying, peer pressure, and belonging.

Family Changes & Transitions

Adjusting to separation, grief, moving, or changing family relationships.

Changes in Behaviour

Exploring changes in mood, withdrawal, frustration, or communication.

Identity & Growing Independence

Exploring identity, relationships, independence, and future transitions.

Not Sure Whether Counselling Is the Right Next Step?

You don't need to have everything figured out. A free 20-minute consultation can help you explore your concerns and find a counsellor who may be a good fit.

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Building Skills That Last

How Counselling Helps Children & Teens Grow

Counselling helps children, teens, and young adults better understand their emotions, develop healthy coping skills, and build confidence in navigating everyday challenges.

The Goal Isn't to Never Struggle

It's to help young people understand their feelings, respond to challenges, and develop greater confidence in themselves.

Understanding Emotions

Recognizing feelings, triggers, and the signals their bodies provide.

Managing Big Feelings

Learning ways to manage anxiety, frustration, and emotional overwhelm.

Healthy Ways of Coping

Building practical coping skills for stress and difficult situations.

Confidence & Self-Trust

Recognizing strengths, reducing self-criticism, and developing confidence.

Communication & Relationships

Expressing needs, setting boundaries, and navigating important relationships.

Problem-Solving & Resilience

Working through challenges, adapting to change, and building resilience.

Small Steps Matter

Progress Doesn't Always Look Dramatic

Sometimes it's speaking up, asking for help, recovering from a difficult moment, or beginning to understand why they feel the way they do.

What to Expect

What Are Counselling Sessions Like for Children & Teens?

Starting counselling can feel unfamiliar for children, teens, and parents. Some young people feel ready to talk, while others need time to become comfortable. Sessions begin by meeting each young person where they are.

Building Safety & Trust

Sessions begin by helping your child or teen feel comfortable. There's no pressure to share everything right away.

Understanding What's Going On

Together, we explore emotions, experiences, relationships, and patterns that may be affecting everyday life.

Developing Practical Skills

Sessions may include strategies for managing anxiety, big emotions, stress, communication, and relationships.

Adapting as They Grow

Counselling evolves with your child's needs, experiences, and goals. There's no one-size-fits-all approach.

At Their Own Pace

There's No Pressure to Open Up Right Away

Feeling safe and understood takes time. Counselling respects each young person's comfort, personality, and readiness to share.